From the Pastor’s Desk
Love…. An intense feeling of deep affection.
So, I give you a new command: Love each other deeply and fully. Remember the ways that I have loved you and demonstrate your love for others in those same ways. Everyone will know you as My followers if you demonstrate your love to others. – John 13:34-35
The final command that Jesus gave to His disciples before heading to the Garden of Gethsemane to pray and ultimately, to the cross at Calvery was – “Love one another – just like I love you.”
It’s the month of “I love you’s”, the month of chocolate and flowers and candlelight dinners and little heart candies.
The month of LOVE. For some people, Valentines Day is a day to celebrate, for others a day to just get through.
And this year, the day of hearts and flowers shares the day with the one that reminds us of our mortality – Ash Wednesday.
As I thought about this, I wondered if this coincidence of a light and fluffy holiday falling on the day in the church calendar that is one of the heaviest had anything in common.
I think it does: LOVE.
Ash Wednesday is celebrated as a solemn reminder of our humanness and our mortality. It marks the beginning of the Lenten Season. It marks the first day of Lent and reminds us that we are only 6 ½ weeks away from Easter. It marks the beginning of the season that calls us to slow down, turn ourselves around – to repent.
REPENT… Feel of sincere regret or remorse about one’s wrongdoing.
After almost 35 years of marriage, I have experienced deep feelings of regret for things I did or didn’t do that may have hurt the one I love. I have whispered the sincere words “I’m sorry” more times than I can count. And each time, I was met with love. Long standing, deep relationships are like that - resilient.
Lent is a season of carving out more time to build our relationship with The Holy One through quiet reflection, immersing ourselves in scripture or just a casual conversation in prayer. We do this also through our acts of repentance - uncovering the places in life we have covered up for fear that God and the world might see the REAL US!
The thing is… God knows the REAL US already. Every bit – the good, the bad and the really ugly parts - And God calls you BELOVED.
Ash Wednesday and Valentine’s Day have one thing in common for sure – LOVE.
Love that came down from heaven to walk among us, teach us, and heal us. Love that ultimately died a death reserved for criminals for us…only to rise on Easter morning. Love that turned the tables in our favor so that we could enjoy the gift of a long standing, deep relationship with God… forever. Love that reminds us through the ashes on our foreheads that death does not have the final say.
God’s Love is AGAPE love – the self-less, unconditional love for you, beyond our human comprehension.
A love that is resilient. A love that asks for nothing but calls to us in our deepest places to whisper our repentance, our joys, our “I’m sorry”. A love with arms always open wide to say – “get over here- I love you!”
Happy Valentines Day, beloveds! Happy Ash Wednesday to you, Child of God!
Pastor Perrie