Boo! Life is Scary Sometimes |
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October is here, and it really came fast (so fast this newsletter is 2 days late whooops) and sticking to the scary theme, I wanted this month to be all about anxiety, and how to combat it. And how to accept it. Anxiety disorders are among the most common mental health disorders worldwide. They affect an estimated 284 million people globally. And since "Mental health" is such a scary subject for us Arabs, I thought October would be the best time to talk about it. BOO! Let's dive into the scary, and make it normal and find ways to deal with anxiety. YOU ARE NOT ALONE, relax, take a chill pill you are totally among friends. |
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Delegate Responsibilities: Don't try to do everything on your own. Delegate tasks and responsibilities to other family members, including your children if they are old enough. Teaching kids to contribute to household chores not only lightens your load but also teaches them important life skills. Seek Social Support: Connect with other moms and parents in your community or online who may be experiencing similar challenges. Sharing experiences and advice can be comforting and provide a sense of solidarity. Time Management: Efficient time management can reduce stress. Use tools like to-do lists, time-blocking, and prioritization to ensure you allocate time to essential tasks and self-care. Open Communication: Encourage open and honest communication with your family. Let them know how you're feeling and what kind of support you may need. This fosters a supportive family environment. Limit Overcommitment: Be mindful of taking on too many responsibilities, whether at work or in your personal life. Learn to say no to additional commitments that may stretch you too thin. Don't know where to start? |
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For our College Academics |
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Break Tasks into Smaller Steps: When faced with a BIG assignment or project, break it down into smaller, more manageable tasks. This can make the workload feel less overwhelming and help you stay on track (also don't keep it last minute) Study Techniques: Explore effective study techniques, such as active learning, spaced repetition, and creating study schedules. These methods can help you retain information more efficiently and reduce test-related anxiety. Stay Organized: Keep your study materials and living space organized. A clutter-free environment can contribute to a sense of control and reduce anxiety. If you have too much to do think about hiring a cleaning service, or give yourself a weekend clean inspo/amazon splurge. Call home: No matter if you are abroad or in the same country as your family. Sometimes all you need to do is connect with family and feel that safe space. If family doesn't seem like home connect to friends that do. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Practice mindfulness, meditation, deep breathing exercises, or progressive muscle relaxation to manage stress and anxiety. These techniques can help you stay grounded and reduce the physical symptoms of anxiety. Don't know where to start? |
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For our EMPLOYED and "happy" |
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Unplug: Disconnect from work-related emails and tasks when you're off-duty. Set specific times when you check and respond to work messages to prevent constant interruptions. Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that it's okay not to be perfect. Set realistic expectations for yourself in both your personal and professional life. Avoid comparing yourself to others (wish I could underline a million times), as this can contribute to anxiety. Career Planning: Evaluate your career goals and aspirations. If you're feeling unfulfilled or overwhelmed at work, consider discussing potential changes with your family, friends or employer explore new opportunities, or seeking career coaching (that's me btw.) Financial Planning: Financial stress can contribute to anxiety. Develop a budget, set financial goals, and seek advice from a financial advisor to help and also invest! Be saavy with your money and follow trends that increase your well being not decrease your bank account. Regular Check-Ins: Periodically assess your well-being and make adjustments as needed. Self-reflection and self-awareness can help you identify areas where you need to focus more attention. Don't know where to start? |
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And this is for everyone: Seek Professional Help: If anxiety is interfering with your daily life and functioning, consider seeking support from a mental health professional. Therapy, counseling, or medication may be appropriate treatments. THERE IS NO 3AIB in that, bil 3ax you are being proactive. 💁🏽♀️ Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or need further advice on making anxiety less scary, or still progressing with your goals even with some fears. We're here to support you every step of the way. I look forward to hearing about your goals and dreams no matter how scary they seem this October! Let's make it a month filled with acceptance, kicking butt and taking names. - Bashayer |
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