IRIDESCE 
THE LIVING APOLOGY PROJECT

Over the past two-and-a-half years, people have been remembering and reflecting on the historic 1988 vote of membership and ministry of LGBTQ2+ people in the United Church. And how the United Church has lived out that vote toward LGBTQ2+ members, ministers and their circles over the past 30 years. Over 250 stories, perspectives, memories, reflections and prayers are ready for you to view at Iridesce Stories.

 

The project window is closing on November 30, 2019.
In these last few weeks of the project, we are eager to connect with:

  • United Church people (past, present, friend, all ages)
    including LGBTQIA+ United Church people
  • LGBTQIA+ people who are Black, Two-Spirit, Indigenous, People of Colour
  • LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit people who have (in)visible disabilities
  • Anyone who was not in favour of the 1988 motion, who is willing to share their story of conflict, healing, grace, transformation, and what it means to be affirming of LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit people. 
  • Everyone who feels called or inspired to contribute to this national dialogue.

 

Facilitators are available to receive your story by email. We are also ready to speak one-on-one with individuals or small groups by phone or online, to listen to your story or perspective. Facilitators can coach congregations or small groups to use the Iridesce Workshop Template or the Iridesce Theatre Play.  
 

Do you have a friend who may be interested? Please refer them to us at livingapology@gmail.com. 

 

You can also share your story with us directly. These reflection questions may help you reflect and write. Contributions can be shared anonymously, if requested. To contribute your story, perspective, memory, reflection, prayer—we invite you to contact us directly at livingapology@gmail.com. 

 

Why Share Your Story? 

The stories gathered will directly inform the report and recommendations submitted to the General Council Executive in 2020 and the General Council in 2021. Your contributions will shape the call to the church to engage in LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit justice, and discern if, and how, it might live into a possible apology to LGBTQIA+ and Two-Spirit people.

 

Will you consider sharing your memories or perspectives? That is what the Iridesce project is all about. Remembering, lamenting and sharing together... so we can challenge ourselves—as our 1988 fore-friends did before us—to "consider what kind of church we are and are called to be." Please be in touch at livingapology@gmail.com

 

From, the team of Iridesce: The Living Apology Project 

STORIES & CONTRIBUTIONS

 

Dear United Church, I am pleased that 1988 happened. It led to a lot of controversy...

 
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As a person in the Lgbtx2 community, I feel our church is very accepting and welcoming. We have had drag shows to raise money for different charities in our sanctuary...

 
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I am Pan-romantic Demisexual and I wish I could share that the churches I have been a part of have not only accepted me, but loved and supported me. They have truly been family. I wish I could share with other member of the LGBTQAI+ community that they can be themselves and have a loving church also...

 
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At first I was very proud of my church. I was amazed at how ‘cool’ we were. Then I went to worship in my local congregation and the minister preached hatred from the pulpit. I was in my late teens, ...

 
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ON THE IRIDESCE WEBSITE

HISTORY  •  STORIES  •  SPIRITUALITY & WORSHIP  •  THEOLOGY • EVENTS  •  RESOURCES  •  NEWS

New Theological Writing Shared
by Murray K. Pruden

Murray K. Pruden reflects on his experience with "The Joy Project," and about his links with Cree and Christian culture as a Two-Spirit person. He has graciously shared his writing with the Iridesce Project.

 

READ FULL ARTICLE HERE

https://www.iridesce.ca/theology

(Note: we continue to accept theological essays, sermons, etc. before Nov 30, 2019)

DEADLINE FOR CONTRIBUTIONS TO THIS PROJECT

Our project is closing on November 30th, 2019. We continue to invite the entire United Church to contribute their memories, stories, reflections, prayers (and so on)... as we remember our 1988 vote of membership and ministry of gay and lesbian people, and as we remember the past 30 years of membership and ministry in our churches. Please email livingapology@gmail.com

 

IRIDESCE UPDATE & VISION REPORT for 2019

YOU ARE WELCOME to download our PDF and read our update on the vision and direction of Iridesce for 2019. Click to download or visit: iridesce.ca/resources

 

THEATRE PLAY - SUPPORT INCLUDED

Want to perform the Iridesce Theatre Play with your church or youth group? We offer full support for amateur actors and directors to hold a meaningful theatre event in your community. Email livingapology@gmail.com for more information.

 

DONATE TO MISSION & SERVICE

If you would like to support this project and other worthy projects, please add to the collective pot by making a donation. Click here for more information on making a donation. Thank you!

 

 

SHARE YOUR STORY

 

What is your experience or perspective

about our 1988 vote and/or

about membership and ministry of LGBTQ2+ people

in the United Church?

Iridesce is called to be a faith-filled, collaborative journey. The whole church is invited to
participate. What is your experience, point-of-view, concern or gratitude around the 1988 vote or around LGBTQ2+ welcome in your community of faith, past or present? 
All points-of-view are important and will be gratefully received.

Please email our Coordinator Aaron at livingapology@gmail.com

 

Iridesce: The Living Apology Project is a joint project of Affirm United/S'affirmer Ensemble and
The United Church of Canada. It is funded by Mission & Service.

 

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