Leah's Work
Since the first of September, I have had way more time to work on art. The first week was really fun. I got up early, made coffee, and pretty much got right to work on an art project and was consistently focused on it for hours. I felt accomplished and productive and pretty good about myself. That was a great week.
The weeks following were not like that one. I woke up groggy everyday, tried to get right to work, stared at something for a while, and became very frustrated very quickly. I felt very pointless. Those were bad weeks.
I produced things that first week, I had clear progress to share, and that's great! When that trend inevitably got exhausted, I immediately felt like a failure.
That fast. And thus the rest of my week was doomed.
When I stopped having something to show for this time I'm so lucky to have, I became a 'bad artist' who contributes nothing. I had no energy to fill the time, be busy, or produce, so I had nothing to prove that I did anything at all, because I did nothing, and therefore was not valuable.
Suddenly, this subjective idea that comes and goes (productivity), became the end-all signifier of a 'good' or 'bad' experience. It really took a toll on creativity, not to mention my general life enjoyment.
I’m learning that this is a really extreme and risky way to approach life and self worth.
This production-obsessed, self-sufficient, busy, hard-working, non-stop… thing is very engrained in my daily experience. And I think I can say it is also in less or more extreme ways engrained in everyone’s daily experience -- especially those living in American culture.
In this culture, worth and productivity are directly proportional. Hard work is praised, productivity measures accomplishment, and so we keep “pushing through” (a phrase we tell ourselves and each other way more than “go rest!”, or, “slow down and savor something!”).
There is a place for hard work. I love working hard. It’s satisfying and it helps me to direct and release my energy and then to rest well later.
AND working hard and making things is not who I am and does not tell me what I’m worth. There is no ideal amount that will make me 'good' or 'bad'. Ahhhhhh!
It’s an endlessly hard concept for me to grasp. I can type it out, but actually practicing it - and eventually believing it intrinsically - I’m sure is a lifetime of work.*
*AND where I am in even this work doesn’t add to or diminish my value!