Leadership, clarified.

What did you say? Active listening is a leadership skill.

July 2022

Hello!

 

We live in a noisy world. Our attention is pulled in many directions at the same time and the constant stream of alerts from our phones or smart watches aren't helping. Yes, we have the latest information at our fingertips, but what's the cost to our relationships?

Consider the impact of a colleague or friend sharing something important while your focus glides from them to a screen throughout the conversation. It is likely to be an unsatisfying interaction for both of you. They will feel unheard and undervalued and you will have missed an important opportunity to connect. This is why active listening is an important leadership (and human) skill. As I work with leaders during coaching engagements, active listening is frequently a skill that we practice. Active listening requires a different mindset than other levels of listening (check out the graphic below) and the rewards are worth the effort. 

 

The Center for Creative Leadership has an active listening challenge that you could try if you want to see the difference it makes in your personal and professional relationships.

 

Thanks for reading. 

~Jill

What caught my attention this month

The path from good listener to great listener can be steep. I have found these articles helpful in thinking through the energy and behavior evolutions needed to elevate listening skills.

How to Become a Better Listener

Listening is a skill that's vitally important, sadly undertaught, and physically and mentally taxing. In the aftermath of Covid-19, particularly with the shift to remote work and the red-hot job market, it's never been more important - or more difficult - for leaders to be good listeners.

6 Ways Effective Listening Can Make You A Better Leader

When employees say they want their voices to be heard, they are really saying they want leaders who will not just hear them, but really listen to them. As employees seek more attention, feedback and support, leaders must become more mindful of individual needs in order to more effectively inspire professional development and overall performance.

How to become a better listener, according to science

How well and frequently you listen to others is a better predictor of your leadership potential than your actual intelligence or personality.

Using Effective Listening to Improve Leadership in Environmental Health and Safety

by Erica Hersh Every day, environmental health and safety professionals make a myriad of decisions using their technical skills, which have far-reaching impacts for both organizations and the public at large. But while those technical skills are crucial, making the right decisions goes beyond this knowledge.

What's Your Listening Style?

We may have learned that we need to let people speak without interrupting but taking turns talking does not truly denote listening. And unintentionally hijacking conversations to advise, inject humor, empathize, prioritize efficiency, or insert ourselves into the speaker's narrative is often done with good intentions, but may instead disrupt the human connection we think we're forging.

Recent articles from Leadership Refinery

Listening is a Leadership Competency

Are you a good leader? Are you a good listener? What kind of listening do you do? Depending on who you ask or what you read, there are anywhere from three to seven levels of listening. One model that I have found easy to use with leaders is from Better Manager.

Talent Development Conversations to Have Right Now

The pandemic has changed how employees think about development and your approach as a leader may need to evolve, too.

Where you can find me

My family and I are headed to the Wisconsin Dells later this summer for what is becoming an annual tradition - THAT Conference. While my husband attends the conference to stay current on his technical skills as a software developer, I will be facilitating a conference workshop "Design the Life and Career You Want!" with my great friend and fellow coach, Katie Selby.

 

It's the sixth year we are attending as a family and the fifth time that I have been invited to speak. If you or someone you know is a developer, I recommend checking out THAT conference!

 
Learn more

Plan your fall professional development now! Join me at Linkage Women in Leadership. I will be in person in Orlando facilitating "Mastering Your Inner Critic" workshops. If travel isn't an option for you or your team, there is a great virtual option, too. Early bird discounts are available until the end of August.

 

Contact me with questions about the conference and to discuss if it might be a good fit for you or people on your team.

 
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