February
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Love is totally in the air.

You holding your breathe?

Hey 7ilween

 

February has arrived, and with it, the whispers of love are in the air – or are they?

 

For some, if you’re without a special someone, it can feel like a time to retreat and dwell in loneliness, believing you’re missing out on something essential.

 

But let's pause and ask ourselves, are we truly missing out?

 

Staying cocooned in bed might feel like a yes, but remember, Valentine's Day isn't just about romantic love. It's a celebration of all the profound loves in your life:

 

Cherishing yourself.

 

Embracing the warmth of your family.

 

Valuing the laughter and support of friends.

 

Indulging in your favorite hobbies and passions.

 

This month is your chance to paint with love in all its hues – be it love from others or the love you give yourself.

 

And just for fun, a little trivia on the origins of Valentine’s Day:

Did you know it traces back to Lupercalia, an Ancient Roman Festival celebrated from February 13th to 15th? Marking the advent of spring, this festival was filled with fertility rites and, interestingly, the pairing of women with men through a lottery system.

So, in the spirit of Lupercalia, remember – anyone lucky enough to have you in their life has hit the jackpot!

 

Embrace the love, in every form it takes, this February.

February Question

What is your love language? *What you do to show love?*

 

What is the love language you look for?* The love language received?*

 

💗Gifts

💗Physical Touch

💗Words of Affirmation

💗Acts of Service

💗Quality Time

 

February Challenge

Do something for someone without expecting anything in return.

💗Make it unique to them - something you know they would appreciate

💗Keep it thoughtful - think about it

💗Something you wish you had - self explanatory.

 

February Focus

💗Self Love:

 

Embrace Your Uniqueness: Understand that your quirks and unique traits are what set you apart. Embrace them as strengths rather than viewing them as flaws.

 

Practice Kindness to Yourself: Be kind and gentle with yourself. Understand that being authentically you is a continuous process and it’s okay to have moments of doubt.

 

Express Yourself: Find ways to express your true self, whether it’s through fashion, art, writing, or any other form of expression that feels authentic to you.

 

💗Being your own Advocate:

 

 Effective Communication: Develop the ability to clearly and assertively communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs. This includes being able to say no when necessary and asking for what you want or need. No fashla, say what you feel and mean it.

 

Record-Keeping: Keep detailed records that might be necessary for advocating for yourself, such as medical records, work performance reviews, or any correspondences related to your advocacy issue.

 

💗Respecting Personal Boundaries:

 

Assertive Communication of Personal Needs: Clearly and confidently communicate your own needs and preferences. Being assertive about what works for you and what doesn't is crucial for maintaining personal boundaries and mental well-being.

 

Prioritizing Self over Societal Expectations: Give yourself permission to say 'no' to requests or expectations that conflict with your personal values, capabilities, or mental health needs, regardless of societal pressures. Prioritizing your own well-being is not just your right, but also essential for sustaining long-term health and happiness.

 

💗Cultivating Gratitude:

 

Express Gratitude to Others: Make it a habit to verbally express thanks to people in your life. Acknowledging the positive impact others have on you strengthens relationships and spreads positivity.

 

Maintain a Gratitude Journal: Regularly write down things you're thankful for, no matter how small. This practice helps shift focus to the positive aspects of life, fostering a sense of appreciation and contentment.
 

💗Present Moment Awareness:


Engage in Single-Tasking: Focus on one task at a time, giving it your full attention. This practice of single-tasking helps in minimizing distractions and keeps you grounded in the current activity.

 

Mindful Movement: Incorporate mindful walking or gentle stretching into your daily routine. Pay close attention to the movement of your body and how it feels, fostering a connection with the present moment.
 

 

Have the best February, the best way to show yourself love, is by being your biggest supporter, best friend and doing you.


-Bashayer 

 

 

 

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