July Offerings, 10 Tips for Burnout Prevention, Personal & Physician Coaching, Courses

Dear friends and colleagues,

 

This month I am sharing tips and pearls from talks I give to physicians, paramedics, nurses, allied health care workers, parents, and the public on how to avoid burnout (read below for 10 Tips to Prevent Burnout). Immediately below you will find the free interactive online sessions available this month including a Mindfulness & Meditation session on July 28th which is open to all. There is also information on upcoming online group courses and personal and physician coaching. Wishing you a wonderful July as we start to enjoy some return to fun activities, longer sunny days, and time with loved ones.

 

July - Free Sessions

 

Mindfulness & Meditation Session

Details/register: July 28th, 12-1pmET

Hosted by Dr. Kostenuik

(No fee. All are welcome but space is limited.)

 

For Canadian Physicians:

Mindful Parenting: July 13th 12-1pmET

Overcoming Burnout: July 29th 12-1pmET

These sessions are open to Canadian physicians and medical learners

Sponsored by CMA, facilitated by Dr. Marcia Kostenuik

10 TIPS TO PREVENT BURNOUT

 

Here are some tips and pearls from the live talks I have been giving on burnout. I hope there is a practical action item here for you! These are also steps in the Recharge to Prevent or Overcome Burnout series. I have expanded on the first 3 tips in the paragraphs below and will send details on the others in future newsletters.

 

1. Recognize the symptoms

2. Get rest 

3. Manage your energy

4. Connect with friends outside of work

5. Have a hobby you enjoy at least once a week

6. Get active, move your body (e.g. walking, yoga, sports)

7. Schedule fun activities regularly in your calendar

8. Renew your mind and body with nurturing activities

9. Invest in your personal growth

10. Consider new perspectives, opportunities, and attitudes

 

Many individuals do not recognize burnout until it is too late. Fortunately, you can learn to notice the signs and predisposing factors early to avoid a pattern of repeatedly "knocking on the door of burnout". Early signs of burnout can include the need to prove yourself, avoiding self-care (eating, sleeping, rest, recreation, socializing), and focusing solely on work at the expense of other areas and relationships in your life. Over time you may experience exhaustion, depressed mood, cynicism, anger, addictions, and other unhealthy avoidance patterns along with poor self-care that can lead to total collapse.


It is important to recognize the signs as early as possible and get support. Immediately getting rest and a break from work stressors can help with acute issues. Burnout responds to a change in workload, work type, work environment, work adjustments, or a complete break from work.

 

Managing your energy means being realistic about workload and recognizing that non-work-related stresses also count. Whether it's a kitchen renovation, a marital dispute, caring for an ill family member, adjusting to a life transition, parenting challenges, your air conditioner breaking, or dealing with financial difficulty it is all experienced by your nervous system as stress and additional work. We often ignore this gradual, insidious "piling on" of stressors and we don't make adequate (or any) adjustments to our workload or other schedules. If you are feeling burned out, or there are new additional stressors in your life, these need to be accounted for in your self-care and recovery plans otherwise your nervous system and health will start to break down.

 

Remember to take an afternoon or day off, book a week of vacation, consider a sabbatical, think about work sharing or locum support - find ways to restore balance and energy so that you can recharge appropriately and safely (even your cell phone doesn't work without charging!). We need to remember that overworking and not recharging can impair our ability to sustain not only our work and career, but our health, our relationships, and our life. Think about how you can take a break daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, yearly, etc., then, schedule it (right now)! 

 

Consider delegating or hiring help for household chores, maintenance work, and other jobs that can be done by someone else. Hiring a summer student (or a friend's teenager) can be a win-win solution to getting odd jobs and projects completed. Local services and resources may be available to help you with organizing, cleaning, cooking, gardening, lawn care, and other jobs. Of course, improvements in the workplace are also important, and hiring help with data entry and other workflow roadblocks has been shown to be effective.

 

It is crucial to be aware that some of your personality traits and other personal factors may put you at risk of burnout. For example perfectionism, workaholism (or what I sometimes call "work use disorder"), a strong sense of social justice, extreme conscientiousness, high intelligence or giftedness (sometimes associated with high levels of creativity), and even high resilience and the ability to take on many roles and responsibilities can contribute to burnout. Some of these factors do have elements of strength and can be used in a positive way, but if misused or misunderstood they can lead to unhealthy outcomes. Most physicians, parents, and individuals I have worked with who have experienced burnout have difficulty setting personal limits, saying 'no' (kindly), and having healthy boundaries. 

 

It is also important to recognize that many (if not most) of the causes of burnout relate to system issues. I work at addressing these as well, however, while these system issues take time to change, I like to empower individuals to take some immediate actions to get off the path to burnout and into a more enjoyable and sustainable life.

 

If you are interested in individual coaching to help you succeed you can schedule a free call or get more information by emailing me at marcia@drkostenuik.com. You might also consider the RECHARGE to Prevent or Overcome Burnout online interactive series. If you are recognizing signs of burnout the good news is that there are solutions that can get you back on track and enjoying your life.

Burnout Resources

 

On this resource page, I have gathered helpful resources and articles to help get you off the path to burnout. You will find a link to a questionnaire to help you determine your own level of burnout, as well as tips and tools to help you on the road to recovery.

IS COACHING RIGHT FOR YOU?

 

Personal coaching focuses on helping you take action towards your goals and provides the structure, skills, support, and honest feedback needed to help you achieve results. Over the years it has been my experience that physicians like to work with a professional who understands their struggles, challenges, strengths, and goals. Many physicians are wanting professional confidential support from another physician who understands them and can help them reach their vision. It is incredibly rewarding to see clients overcome previous obstacles, use their talents and abilities effectively, and achieve personal growth. 

 

Your coaching goals may include:

-preventing burnout

-improving life/work balance

-enhancing parenting skills

-adjusting to a transition

-starting a new career or life chapter

-cultivating leadership skills

-gaining interpersonal, communication, and social skills to improve personal and work relationships

-building a mindfulness and meditation practice

 

Your coaching goals are personal to you and are addressed individually to help you achieve the most effective results in the shortest time. In some cases, the desired goals are achieved in as few as two sessions, however, for others, a longer coaching relationship may be helpful and supportive of their needs and plans.

 

If you are interested in personal coaching you can email marcia@drkostenuik.com to book a free phone call or to ask for details.

For testimonials see further below.

Currently Available Courses/Series:

 

RECHARGE to Prevent or Overcome Burnout

8-Week Interactive Online Series

Oct 20 - Dec 8, 2021

 

This 8-week online interactive series includes a practical action plan to help get you off the path to burnout by better understanding its roots. You will receive weekly support as you recover and build sustainable habits for a more enjoyable and fulfilling life.

Emerge renewed with powerful skills and a new outlook.

Get support, interact with peers and create a new beginning.

Space is limited.

Register now: click here for details & registration info

 

 

Finding Stillness

Mindfulness, Meditation, Deep Relaxation

10 monthly sessions Sep 13 2021 - Jun 13, 2022

(8-9pmET)

 

Each month enjoy guided awareness practices that invite deep relaxation to the body and mind, allowing you to renew and recharge. Whether you are suffering from burnout, stress, or other challenges, find relief from tension and be guided to potentially resolve longstanding patterns of stress.

These sessions will also introduce you to attitudes of mindfulness, a variety of meditation styles, and Yoga Nidra ("yogic sleep").

Busy schedule? No time? The monthly evening sessions fit more easily into most schedules and still allow you to find relaxation, recovery, and the opportunity to recharge from burnout. Committing to a 10-month series helps ensure you will stay on track and get support and guidance. along the way.

Space is limited.

Register now: click for details & registration info

 

Testimonials

Testimonials and feedback from physician participants of Dr. Kostenuik’s coaching and online sessions/courses:

 

Thank you so much for all your help; your attitude and suggestions were extremely precious and played a huge part in our balance!

 

Thank you for inviting Dr Kostenuik to give us the presentation yesterday. The topic is so timely, and she is such an engaging speaker. I wish I heard the talk many years ago, that may well have prevented my burnout. It will be nice to have her back for another enlightening session.

 

Within two sessions, we had acquired so much knowledge and insight..She was professional, knowledgeable and just got it. After listening to us, she was full of personalized suggestions that proved to be right in tune...We are so grateful for her insights and approach and consider ourselves lucky to have found her and worked with her...I have no doubt we will seek her guidance out again. Thank you so very much Marcia!   

 

Dr Kostenuik’s mindful parenting course has been helpful on so many levels…Her simple approach, with practical tools, has helped on the personal level but also with all my human interactions. I have seen results in a very short period of time and I highly recommend her course!

There are many free resources for meditation, mindfulness, parenting, burnout and more at drkostenuik.com

To book a speaking engagement or interactive group session for your group contact marcia@drkostenuik.com

BRIEF BIO

 

Dr. Marcia Kostenuik MD CCFP BSc is a physician, teacher, speaker and personal coach. As a medical psychotherapist and a former emergency room physician she brings a practical approach to wellness and mental health. She created Psychological First Aid Tools for COVID-19 and facilitates peer support groups for the Canadian Medical Association. Her current clinical practice involves treating physicians suffering from burnout, post-traumatic stress, anxiety, and interpersonal difficulties. Her academic work includes teaching psychotherapy and practice management skills to medical residents. Dr. Kostenuik created and teaches online courses and series in mindfulness, meditation, parenting, stress reduction, and burnout prevention. She speaks to organizations about wellness and provides coaching in interpersonal and communication skills. She has been awarded the Daniel Glazier Award by the College of Family Physicians of Canada for her work in mental health and suicide prevention and is a member of the board of directors of the Medical Psychotherapy Association of Canada. Marcia is also a wife, a mother of two, enjoys spending time with her dogs, and is a registered yoga instructor. 

 

For more information: drkostenuik.com or MDstressreduction.com. Contact: marcia@drkostenuik.com

Connect on social:

Instagram @drkostenuik

Facebook @drkostenuik

Twitter @drkostenuik

LinkedIn Marcia Kostenuik

marcia@drkostenuik.com

Share on social

Share on FacebookShare on X (Twitter)Share on Pinterest

Check out my website