Children’s oral language development directly impacts their reading and written development. Children need to hear language and be introduced to new vocabulary so that they can process and understand the meaning of words. The more children are introduced to words, the better problem solving skills they will have in the future. This is why reading to your child is important. Reading expands the vocabulary and shows how words can be used together. Stories should be told with animation and pausing in between to ask questions to ensure your child’s comprehension.
On a day to day basis, talk to your child. Talk to them when they eat or when driving together in the car. You can point out street signs and street names as you cross them and words on storefronts and inside grocery stores. Ask open ended questions and add content when reiterating statements. When you talk to your child, you are modeling sounds, words, tone and grammar. Children should see you write and make lists on paper, not on your devices. You can show them punctuation and explain what they mean.
For children who are relatively young, you should narrate what you see or what you do so that they develop receptive language first. Encourage them to repeat words but do not force them as that would have an adverse effect. Children will learn to speak at their own pace and if you have concerns about your child’s speech, your pediatrician is a great place to start.