I’m writing from 36,000 feet over Minnesota. While trying to get work done on my flight, the Internet has been… let’s say… less than stable. The work I need to do requires access to online tools, and I have only this three-hour flight to accomplish allthethings!
When moments like this happen, I can feel the frustration blinders building; all I can see is the very thing that I’m convinced is ruining my whole beautiful plan! I have to quickly recalibrate. My new trick: I have a post-it on my desktop reminding me to Pause, Ponder, and Pivot.
Pause: I stop and take a couple slow deep breaths. This calms my mind and my heart rate and gives me a moment of perspective. Today I realized:
Ok, Jenn: You’re literally, sitting in a long metal tube, six miles above the earth, while sitting on your butt, wiggling your fingers, and communicating with people around the world. And you’re upset there’s a two-minute delay?!
Well… when you put it that way… 🙄
Ponder: Next, I think objectively about the situation. This moment also helps me clarify: What are really truly the “must-haves” in this moment vs. the “really really wanted to haves?”
Pivot: Now I can identify a work-around to get those must-haves done with the tools available right now.
As leaders, we know things don’t always go as planned, but it doesn’t help you or your team to freak out and allow those “frustration blinders” to keep you from seeing new options. This routine has helped me to reset, adapt, and find new paths forward.
What routines (or post-its?) do you have to help you recalibrate when things don’t go as planned? I’d love to hear from you!
On the journey with you,