Daisy Rain Martin 

Welcome to my

interactive newsletter

Spring 2024

Welcome in.

I'm so glad you're here.

Happy Spring, beautiful people! <<< Yes, this is how I feel these days. More on that in a minute. Right now, I want to thank you for taking time and making space in your extraordinarily busy lives for this lil' interactive newsletter. I'm looking forward to creating one for every season. But right now, I believe some spring/spirit cleaning is in order.

 
TED Talk - Finding Peace (The Peace Index) by Jeremie Kubicek

Therefore, in this first OFFICIAL spring issue, I want to talk about CHOSEN FAMILY, recommend a few books and an AWESOME class for writers that will take them to the next level in their careers AND give tired teachers a break by actually teaching an online poetry activity for them. So, please share this with all the teachers and aspiring writers you know as well as anyone else who might get a kick out of these musings of mine. Remember, these Rainy Dais Newsletters are interactive, so click on the links!

 

As spring unfolds this year, I wish you joy. I hope you will join me in seeking it out, wherever it may be found--no small task in these tumultuous times. If you spend your energy fretting LIKE I DO about all that's going on in this world (which you really have little to no control over) you're probably longing for respite in this new season. Something fresh. Something sustainable. Something of value. I have to wonder what my own life would look like if I could reign in my knee-jerk responses to all things ugly in this world and, with intention, create some equilibrium in my life by seeking out all that is good?

 

I must make room for Love to flow freely and somehow trade my frustration for Joy. Replace fear for Peace. Turn my reactions into responses and conjure up some Patience. Skip the sharp retorts, always at the ready, and practice Kindness. Acknowledge the reality that all the bad news we're bombarded with in this world is NOT ACTUAL CRACK AND I DON'T HAVE TO SMOKE IT! I need to cure whatever compels me to it and curate Goodness in my soul instead. Evict the feeling of continual betrayal and invite Faithfulness in. Chip down that tough exterior and encapsulate myself in Gentleness. Because, as you can see, I am more than a tad exhausted. I don't know about you, but I need this season to be about renewal.

 

May we find it in ourselves and in each other.

 

Love to all!

Daisy Rain

 I would love to know your thoughts on the phrase, Blood is thicker than water. I feel like it reinforces the notion that relationships with blood relatives are inherently stronger than relationships with those outside of the 'true' biological family and demands loyalty, with or without merit. My birth mother and her husband (who adopted me before I was old enough to protest) raised us in an abusive home with toxic religious beliefs.  A particularly problematic teaching we were quite familiar with was that if we don't forgive others when they sin against us, God won't forgive any of our sins, and we would be thrown in the hot place when we died.

Imagine an abuser wielding that kind of power over children. If you know me or have read my work, you're probably thinking, Wow. That explains a lot about Daisy and her crappily written deconstruction poetry.

 

Here's what I now know:

 

The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

 

I am so very grateful for the wonderful biological family members who are so lovingly supportive as well as my family of choice. Those of you who have chosen your families can relate.

This is my chosen father, Alvin. I didn't meet him until I was twenty. He knew in about two seconds that I needed a dad. A safe dad. A good dad. He offered to be my dad, and I took him up on that. He saw my struggles. One of the most powerful things he ever said to me was, "Honey, people can only walk in the light that they know." He showed me how to give myself grace.

 
The song I chose for Dad.

Not long ago, our family said goodbye to him... for now. His last words to me were, "That's my girl, Daisy," and he blew me kisses over FaceTime.

This is my chosen mother, JoAnne. I've spent this week helping her pack Dad's clothes and clean out his office, sharing our grief, crying one minute and laughing the next. I have a brother and sister with spouses and kids, kids and more kids who call me their Aunt Daisy. There are barbeques and laughter and littles, literally everywhere.

 
Undoubtedly, Mom's prayer for me. Every. Single. Day.

Love has never been a problem in our family and never will be. We're swimming in it. But I do confess, I am a somewhat wayward child, having wandered away from the faith and foundation they've laid for whole lot of us. I came with broken pieces, and I've turned out a bit worrisome, which I certainly never wanted for these beautiful souls. It's strange... same religion, different experiences.

 

Love.

Joy.

Peace.

Patience.

Kindness.

Goodness.

Faithfulness.

Gentleness.

Self-Control.

 

I have laid aside every weight that bound me, and I will never embrace those things again. I'm just trying to walk in the light that I know.

 

I love you, Mom and Dad. You've covered me in sunshine.

I wrote this for you.

 

The Beatitudes of my Chosen Family

 

Blessed is this used-up child,

poor in spirit,

for we shall set a place for her at our table

and fill her to overflowing.

 

Blessed is this forsaken child

who mourns for all she never had,

for we shall shelter her under our wings

until she comes to realize

that she deserved love all along.

 

Blessed is this flinchy, feral child,

for she shall inherit the peace of our hearts,

the calm of our minds

and the gentleness of our spirits.

 

Blessed is this hollow child,

who hungers and thirsts for righteousness,

for all she's been fed is a stomach-churning simulation.

We will nurture her with truth and grace,

and she will be filled.

 

Blessed is this merciful child,

who loves justice and experiments with humility,

for we shall journey with her

as she walks in the only light that she knows.

We will unravel the harm that was done.

 

Blessed is this pining child,

who tries to make peace with her past

with denial

and rage

and quarrels

and heartache

and resignation,

for we shall

see her

and hear her

and heal her.

We shall speak truth to her

and walk beside her

until she is free.

 

Blessed is this hopeful child,

whose heart is healed as she heals others,

who resurrects others as she, herself is resurrected,

for we shall share in the joy that is hers

for being alive.

 

Blessed is she who is persecuted

among whitewashed tombs,

for she has made a whip out of cords

and will drive them from the temple,

flipping over their tables and scattering their dirty money.

We shall drop to our knees and pray for her safety...

because that's the kind of shit that gets a girl crucified.

 

Publicly.

 

Blessed is she when people insult her,

persecute her and falsely say all kinds of evil things about her

because, really, she couldn't care less.

We shall rejoice and be glad because, she,

along with all of our children

are our eternal reward.

FOR TEACHERS: LET ME TEACH YOUR CLASSES!

Does it seem like summer break is a long way away?

You deserve a break. Please allow me to teach a lesson for you

as we anxiously anticipate our summer break.

Click here and make copies of this pdf for each of your students.
Click here to assign this video to your students in Google Classroom OR play it on a big screen. Either way, pause between segments so students can work step by step. (Don't make fun of my bangs!)
Click her for a sneak Peek of Daisy Rain's YA Novel: 'Every Good Day'

I recorded this Blackout Poetry lesson for my school district during the pandemic. (Thus, the bangs.) It can be used for kids from upper elementary through middle school. High schoolers may also buy in, so give the video a click and see what you think. The pdf will be a download--make sure each student has a copy. Plus, they'll all need a regular pencil as well as colored pencils or markers. Please sit back and relax for a hot minute and let me know how it goes! Feel free to share this with every teacher you know! And THANK YOU for everything you do for this planet! Educators really do make the world go 'round.

Rainy Dais Writing Tip:

Do literary agents keep rejecting your queries when you feel like you've taken your manuscript as far as you possibly can?

Because that what was happening to me until I took a class from THIS LADY!

May I introduce you to this brilliant, award-winning author, ELANA K. ARNOLD.

You simply MUST click on the button below and check out her

REVISION SEASON CLASS!

 
Elana K. Arnold's REVISION SEASON CLASS

This class equipped me with revision skills that has made all the difference in every project as well as my query journey. My manuscript has been and is currently being considered by amazing literary agents from amazing literary agencies. I'm able to put my work 'out there' with confidence because Ms. Elana thoroughly took me, step by step, through one revision strategy after another. I encourage anyone who is serious about becoming an author to invest in yourself and invest in your work by taking this career-changing instruction.

Book Recommendations for Spring

 

Nonfiction Young Adult

The impact this book had on me is indescribable--and I'm supposed to be some kind of writer, allegedly capable of describing things. It was nothing short of mind-blowing to learn for the first time about the Indigenous Nations on this continent and how they preserved and sustained this land for 3,000 years--such faithful and unfailing stewards of the earth. Ancient wisdom pours from the pages of this book. Your spirit will long for the restoration of the symbiotic relationship between humans and nature. Spoiler alert:

THIS BOOK WILL CHANGE YOU!

 
Robin Wall Kimmerer
 

Children's Picture Book

You know how you go to a really cool university to get a really cool degree in writing for children through young adults and you meet the smartest, most talented people ever?

 

ME TOO!

 

This gorgeous, sassy book, written by the smart and talented Eija Sumner, is on its way to my house RIGHT NOW, and even though I have no sassy littles to put to bed anymore, I can't wait to read about this ferocious little mermaid (no connection to the OTHER little mermaid) who is pretty set against going to bed. If YOU have a little that won't go to bed, this is a must have!

 

In other news, do you know how incredibly difficult it is to write a picture book? HUZZAH to my friend, Eija!

 
Eija Sumner
 

Multi-Vocal Middle Grade

I love a good multi-vocal novel, and Varsha Bajaj has pretty well crafted a masterpiece. Two characters, Karina and Chris, take turns unfurling this story so poignantly on point that I couldn't put this book down. The content Ms. Bajaj addresses is no small feat--she tackles hate crimes, y'all! For middle schoolers! But she does it brilliantly and leaves the audience with such hope and the notion that there really are more of us who practice kindness and inclusion than those who insist on spewing hate. The way these characters galvanize their community is not only powerful... it's downright DOable! LOVE HER!

 
Varsha Bajaj
 

Nonfiction Adult

Ah, the book that made me rethink every religious notion I've ever had. Some call it heresy. I call it enlightening. From 2016 to about 2020, I thought I was bearing witness to the unraveling of the religion of my childhood. This book, however, seemed to suggest that, mayhaps, the religion of my childhood has never been any other way. (Eek, I hope Mom's not reading this!) In any case, Kristen Kobes Du Mez chronicles Christianity in America--the good, the bad and the ugly--and brings ALL the receipts. This book set me free in so many way. IYKYK.

 
Kristen Kobes Du Mez
Click here if you are interested in earning an MFA in writing for children through young adults at Hamline University! GO PIPERS!

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