RANJIT MOTI BUTANI
29/11/1949 - 10/9/2022
My Brother-like Friend
By Raj Daswani
My relationship with Ranjit goes back many years.
I met him in his office which was at New Haven building at the time when he came out with his first issue of Sindhishaan.
My flat "Ashiana", so near his home and office had me go often to visit, where Madan Jumani was present, Madan introduced me he said "yes I have heard his name". Then after every week we used to call each other. He used to look after my financials and tax matters.
We attended practically every International Sindhi Sammelan.
Whenever I visited India first I used to visit him an exchange a big hug, go for lunch at Khar Gymkhana or a Chinese restaurant along with his sweet wife and Ram Jawahrani.
Few years back on my last visit to India he gave me a big hug asking me "How many brothers do you have?." I replied "I am all alone.". He gave me a big hug and said, "Raj hereafter we are brothers."
It was a big shock to me hearing about my brother-like friend.
May you always rest in peace my brother. You will be deeply missed.
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POEM FOR DAD
By Amit Butani
Childhood road trips to Agra and Chail
Jim Corbett, Nainital and adventurous trails
Being held to the sky like spider man
by his strong and unwavering sturdy hands
My Father, My Hero !
Giving me funny long names that we would laugh out loud together
Swinging me between his strong thighs and
singing " ek bangale bane nyaara "
My Father , My Hero !
An amazing singer, man of fortitude
Tall and strong built frame, rooted firmly to the ground
A calm demenour, yet a commanding voice
My Father, My Hero !
The London and Amsterdam Trips together we made
Drinking fine malts & dining together
Getting funny high in hotel rooms, laughing out loud. cracking jokes , and getting emotional together
My Father , My Hero !
A persona that demanded respect wherever he went
Helped many a soul that needed help
Lived generously , gave compassionately
A gregarious man
My Father , My Hero !
Loving father , but more of a friend
Giving guidance when asked and the beautiful moments spent
Wisdom galore , storehouse of knowledge , a towering support
My Father , My Hero!
I don't know about your struggles , your fears , tour cares
You hid them well for all these years
I am sure you faced them with strength and valour
Cause whenever I asked " Dad anything you need to mend ?"
The answer would reverberate " Anand hi Anand "
My Father , My Hero!
White PJ's or a lungi and Banyan
Hands tucked within banyan or clasped behind the head
Whistling any song with melodious ease
A character so strong without a crease
My Father, My Hero!
I will never know what you went through
in the last couple of months
But I know you knew everything that was coming up front
Whenever I asked " Dad you doing ok ?
A smile on your face , giving s thumbs up in such adversity made all the uncertainty vanish away
My Father , My Hero!
I know you have left us but only to live within us
like a guiding angel watching over us
I know you are at peace and enjoying your malts
Flirting with the angels and celebration throughout
Love you "Dude" from deep within my heart
I wish I can be a fraction of the original rockstar
My Father , My Hero !
Love till eternity
YOUR SON
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A Heartfelt Tribute to her
Father-in-law, Late Shri Ranjit Butani
By Mrs. Neetu Butani
Now that I have grown and seen what life has shown you are someone I have always looked up to.
Like Papa loved me and pampered me while I was a Jethwani once he passed the baton to you, you did the same or even more since I was a Butani. You detached the word 'in law' from daughter and since then been an amazing father
(my favourite line )
The pillar of strength of the Butani family whose door one could knock anytime,you always opened the door with a smile and ensured one has walked out fine.
Sitting on the bed without any walking, you could entertain your grandkids for hours just by your talking.
When we were moving to Dubai we were happy and nervous, your simple kind words "These doors are always open" made all the difference.
When I lost my mom I was miserable and sad who helped me reduce my sorrow was THIS DAD.
You were a man who would always side the right. A Simple and Humble soul without any pride.
Time is flying and in no time we will be in-laws Amit and me need to learn from your nature so that our kids and their spouses have a happy future.
You may be gone physically but like you said for mummy I know you too will always be there beside me. I know you tried your best but seeing you suffer made us strong to let you go.
Wishing you a happy eternal journey and pray you be blessed with the light you were always looking for. You will always be remembered and live within us for what you were 'A perfect DAD', OUR HERO.
Thank you for the most memorable precious moments you spent with us just before you left us.
Adios Mr Anand. Hugs and more love until we meet again
Choti Beti
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RANJIT BUTANI
The Gentleman with a Heart of Gold
By Arun Babani
“Sir even scolds with a smile.” (A remark from one of his staffers)
I have millions of fond memories of Butani Saab. He kept criticism in the background and sang praises with both his arms wide open. When I would mail him an article, in less than half an hour his bright, smiling voice would ring in my ears…He would call with such affectionate enthusiasm and ask, ”Arun, how do you do this? ”And I would melt in humility!
I’ve written for many editors over the years but no one can match Butani’s genuine encouragement. He simply was an honest, down-to-earth, simple soul who did not believe in ritualistic formal communications. His heart would ooze out in his responses and relationships. This, according to me, is very very rare.
I consider the fourteen years I wrote for Sindhishaan to be by far the best phase of my journalistic journey. Not so much for the name/fame it gave me, but for being close to this rare gentleman with a golden heart. I remain indebted to him for life for his whole hearted support which made me believe in myself and my work as a writer.
Good bye boss; in you I found an Angel who came into my life to help me see myself in a new light.
Gratitude. Gratitude. Gratitude.
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Ranjit Butani
A True Human Being
By Dr. Baldev B. Matlani
Around the time when world entered third millennium, Rajesh Bhambhani, an old student of mine from Jai Hind College paid a visit to my office at University of Mumbai. He told me about impending launch of a magazine in English but dedicated solely to promote Sindhi cause of language and culture etc. He had brought a dummy of the same. It was titled ‘Sindhishaan’ and looked just superb. I liked it instantly.
Rajesh Bhambhani informed me, that the same was brainchild of one Mr. Ranjit Butani who lived in Bandra, Mumbai. He wanted my co-operation in that venture. The get up of the dummy was so attractive, that I committed not only my services for it but even offered my brother Prem Matlani’s services to provide timely write up for it.
Exactly around same period, Mr. Madan Jumani also met me and told that same Ranjit Butani had entrusted him with production of thirteen TV episodes exclusively showcasing culture & civilization of Sindh and Sindhis. He also wanted me to help him with it.
Before Partition of India, in Karachi’s famous institution D.J. Sindh College, there used to be one principal Mr. Narain Butani, who was also instrumental in appointing Ram Panjwani as the lecturer in the same college. This Ranjit Butani was grand-son of same Prin. Narain Butani.
Mr. Ranjit Motilal Butani had a company, named ‘Sachinam Industries Pvt. Ltd.’, whose designated office was located at the first floor of ‘Blue Heaven’, Linking Road, Bandra and he lived on its second floor.
Mr. Butani had engaged Madan Jumani to produce 13 episodes of a TV serial, who also wanted me to assist him with it. Mr. Butani had given some office space to Madan Jumani on the ground floor of same building, where I began visiting him on regular basis. Madan Jumani had not only penned the script but to direct it too.
Madan Jumani had a long standing association with me since 1981, when he used to judge Inter-Collegiate Sindhi Drama Competition, which we held on annual basis at Jai Hind College, Churchgate, Bombay. He had sought my feedback on few scripts which he had already produced till then.
Whenever I visited Madan Jumani at Butani’s office, former used to take me along and have a tete-a-tete with later. Mr. Ranjit Butani, though in his forties was a hero material, he was tall, fair and handsome. He had a good demeanor too. A smile was a permanent fixture on his face and always treated me like a family member, but we used not to bother him much and spent much of our time at Madan Jumani’s office.
Slowly and gradually, I became close to whole of his office staff, be it his P.A. Mr. Kumar Jain or reporter Sunder Iyer. Madan Jumani filmed one episode of his TV serial in Jhoolelal Temple, Ulhasnagar. Not only I assisted him as an Associate Director in its making but even played a teacher’s role, too. I gave out a lecture on Lord Jhoolelal before students among which was my nephew Aditya Matlani, too. In still photography of the said episode, I was shown telling something to Aditya, which later on Butani Sir, used as cover page of his forthcoming issue of ‘Sindhishaan’. It added to my exposure. Butani Sir had come to Ulhasnagar, for its shoot which also led to our intimacy.
There is one Sindhis’ social group in Pune, who was going to celebrate the ‘Cheti Chand’ festival. We all were invited to attend it and for that we all, i.e. Dada Ram Jethmalani, former Union Law Minister of India; Ranjit Butani, Ram Jawhrani and myself went in a car to Pune and spent quality time in each other’s company. I had introduced my elder brother Prem Matlani also to Ranjit Butani, who took instant liking for him. He always wanted one article from we both the brothers for each issue. He was so generous with me that he used to give my name in the imprint of his magazine ‘Sindhishaan’, as Editorial Consultant & Photo Editor, Dr. Baldev Matlani. Though in fact, I contributed little to it and Butani Sir himself took care of every aspect of publishing of the magazine, but he always appreciated my work.
Once, Butani’s ‘Sindhishaan’ correspondent, Mr. sunder Iyer told me that he wanted to show four generations of Sindhis in India, starting from older one who were witness to trials and tribulation of the Partition, another born in India immediately after Partition, their descendants who were young at the turn of the millennium and their kids, too. I suggested our cousin Mr. Sajandas Matlani, who was young at the time of Partition, his sons born around that time, their young children and their kids.
Sunder Iyer interviewed Sajandas Matlani to have firsthand knowledge of the experiences of Partition. I took out some photos which were later on printed alongside their story, in coming issue of ‘Sindhishaan’. It happened that all these photos, on cover page showing me with my nephew, and one each article by myself and Prem Matlani were included in it. Those days, at one of the meeting, where a BJP stalwart, Mr. K.R. Malkani was there, he literally complained that the issue of that time ‘Sindhishaan’ had become ‘Matlani Issue’.
With the passage of time, our intimacy with Butani Sir increased. Occasionally, he used to visit my elder brother Prem Matlani’s home at Ulhasnagar where we could open up a lot with each other.
Butani Sir shifted his office from Linking Road, Bandra; first to Khira Nagar, Santa Cruz (West) and then Khar (West), where occasionally we both brothers visited him, as he used to enjoy our company, even when he was a big shot and we couldn’t claim of being his friends, then too, he loved us a lot.
As advertisements for ‘Sindhishaan’ couldn’t keep up the pace with the expenditure incurred on its publication, it inflicted heavy losses on his finances. Then reluctantly, Ranjit Butani shifted its publication from physical copy to soft copy which continued for one more year.
Butani Sir had been so kind towards me, that when I retired from my services in September, 2013, from the post of Professor, University of Mumbai; my staff and students arranged a ‘Farewell Party’ in my honour, which was also attended by Ms. Priya Dutt, M.P. and Ranjit Butani, himself too. He had specifically published an issue of ‘Sindhishaan’, with just myself on its cover page and few extra brochures, containing my life story. I feel sad to say, that ‘Sindhishaan’ issue which Butani Sir brought that day was the last issue of its physical publication.
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RANJIT BUTANI
FULL OF LOVE, KINDNESS & AFFINITY
By Dr. Ram Buxani
It was during 2004, when I happened to be in Mumbai. A lovely person talked to me on phone. He was Ranjit Butani, who had just finished studying my book “Taking the High Road” and he wanted to see me personally. I was staying at ‘Oberoi Towers’ hotel at Nariman Point and I fixed our appointment at ‘Belvedere Club’ of the same hotel.
When I entered the said club, he was already seated there and was sipping a cup of tea. I instantly felt love for his person. We had an embrace and I noticed that he was a middle aged person exuding immense confidence in him. He had a thorough knowledge of world affairs. We began mutual liking for each other at first-sight.
Ranjit had an obsession like love for his mother-tongue Sindhi, which in a way compelled him to publish an English quarterly magazine “Sindhishaan”. A copy of its latest issue impressed me a lot. It was nicely printed and used art paper instead of ordinary one. He had also spent heavily on production of 13 episodes of a tele-serial in Sindhi language, which were being telecast on national TV, ‘Sahyadri’ channel. He not only took pride in being a Sindhi guy but conveyed our message of universal love, peace and harmony to each and everyone.
Occasionally we would bump into each other at different venues. Once we celebrated the birthday of Dadi Hari Vaswani at Dubai. For us she was mother, personified. To commemorate it, Ranjit Butani published my article “Ma Tujhe Salam” in Sindhishaan. I had given such a call to whole Sindhi community to celebrate Dadi Hari Vaswani’s birthday as “Mother’s Day”, but somehow it couldn’t fructify and the idea got nipped in the bud, unfortunately.
Dr. Baldev Matlani used to hold International Seminars at University of Mumbai, on annual basis where he invited
litterateurs from all over the world to present their papers. Once he held one such seminar to commemorate sesquicentennial celebration of University of Mumbai. It was December of 2007, when Srichand Hinduja from London, his brother Ashok Hinduja from India, Dr. Mazhar-ul-Haq Siddiqui, the then Vice Chancellor of University of Sindh, another big writer Amar Jahil, who had been earlier Vice Chancellor of “Allama Iqbal Open University”, Islamabad from Pakistan attended it. Dr. Matlani insisted that I must also present a paper which I duly obliged him and read a paper titled “Sindhis, God’s Gift to Global Economy”.
University of Mumbai had published that paper of me with same title “Sindhis, God’s Gift to Global Economy”. That book was the brainchild of Ranjit Butani as he had ample experience of publishing quality magazines. His contribution had added to the beauty of the book.
After that we would regularly meet each other whenever I happen to be at Mumbai which added to my spiritual contentment. I used to read his magazine “Sindhishaan” on regular basis as it went on to become more and more beautiful with the passage of time. He continued it for some ten-fifteen years but as it needed continuous outflow of funds, it had to end some day. If anyone is to be blamed for discontinuation of its publication, it must be borne by all us Sindhis. We read every little and do not encourage such ventures and just come out with various excuses for that. Alas ! Our priorities do not lie with encouragement of our language and literature.