Whatever the issue,
complaining will not make it better.
Faith and praise to God will.
The human flesh wants to tell other people (who cannot help); whereas, the Holy Spirit wants us to respectfully talk to God about it (He is the only One Who can help). The negative report through people will continue to echo. God will keep your confidence and multiply His holiness through you. Which result do you want?
You start the chain.
Therefore, choose the right direction from the onset.
Remember, God sees the heart. God only knows. The Holy Spirit is your Helper—the fastest, surest avenue to relief. Go silent, even if you have to go through the door of pain and tears. Take it to God as your remedy, and He will bring you truth that sets you free and joy in the morning.
“Sing unto the Lord, O ye saints of his, and give thanks at the remembrance of his holiness. For his anger endureth but a moment; in his favour is life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning” (Psalm 30:4-5, KJV).
"If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:31a-32, KJV).
“Free” in the passage just above means: “to be exempt from liability,” to be “release[d] from bondage,” and to have the “restrictions of sin [and darkness]” removed from you by God Himself. In Christ we are no longer slaves to anything or anyone. Rather, we are bondservants to Christ out of the unbreakable bond of love, because we come to know and understand that He loved us first. To be free (eleutheros) means that we are “free to realize [our] destiny in Christ.” There is no higher honor on the earth and all surprises can be calmly taken for we understand God’s will is prevalent and that He is all-present.
PRAYER leads to FREEDOM.
Praise God for sending Jesus Christ!